7 indicators that might help you gauge a girl’s interest in you

While some of you might have already had your dates sorted for this weekend, many might be still planning as to how to ask their girl out. However, before you ask her out, here’s a set of 7 signs a girl likes you

#1 Pupil Dilation

Eyes are the windows to the soul and they play a major factor in the interplay between you and your potential partner. Notice how her eyes react to what you say, if her pupils appear to be dilating then you are on the right track. Pupils usually dilate during very happy or emotional moments and that signifies that you have a positive effect on that particular person. Notice where exactly she is looking, is she looking into your eyes? Or looking away? People in awkward situations tend to gaze around to avoid eye contact.

#2 Body Posture

A woman’s posture can tell a lot about whether she is into you or not. If she is leaning away from you and her feet are pointing slightly opposite to you, then it’s a big NO! She’s definitely not interested in you. This posture is called the “Flight Posture”. Subconsciously we all mimic this posture during situations we try to avoid or fear. If she is maintaining strong eye contact and flipping her hair, leaning in, it is one of the signs a girl likes you.

#3 Damsel in Distress (DiD)

When someone is attracted to you, they tend to always find excuses to be with you, sometimes for the silliest of reasons. They always appear to have a problem which in reality isn’t much of a big deal and they intentionally want you to solve it. Their way of saying that “Hey I like you but I’m too shy to ask you out”.

#4 Sharing Memories

Sometimes sharing past experiences and memories creates an emotional bond between people. So next time your at a bar and the girl who you just met is sharing an embarrassing childhood memory which none of her friends probably know about, think again! Out of all the other guys in the bar she chooses you to confide in. Sharing secrets creates a sense of vulnerability between the receiver and the teller, which later establishes a common ground upon which the two of you can correlate and build upon.

#5 Giggle

When a girl giggles for almost anything you say even when it’s not that funny she’s simply bringing out her fun-loving youth. She wants you to know that she is fun and alive and easygoing. If she makes eye contact with you when she’s giggling, that’s a fantastic signal she is into you.

#6 The Mirror Effect

We tend to copy those who we admire, their actions, their ideology, habits. Look for instances where she picked up certain similarities or habits and learned from you.

#7 Touch

Touch is “the deciding factor”. Touch is considered very personal, it is a privilege we allow to only a few who we really feel comfortable with. WARNING! “Breaking the touch barrier, unless allowed to, is very wrong and has serious consequences if reported”. Notice how she reacts to your touch, is she reciprocating your touch? While you are touching her check whether her pupils are dilating(sign #1), does she appear comfortable when you touch her?

So that’s it, guys. These points are just mere indicators and mean nothing more. Sometimes, they might prove wrong as anomalies exist everywhere. Have a happy valentines day all!

Disclaimer: The views expressed here are solely the author’s and not of Yo! Vizag